Make Your Own Erotic Love Match Sex Games With A Deck Of Cards

Remember to Have Sex
Enjoy Sex The Way You Remember It!

Memory or match style games can be easily turned into even more fun card games for couples by spicing them up with sex. You can create your own erotic card games with a normal deck of cards. In our adult version of the memory game that we call Remember Sex, you match cards to receive sensual foreplay rewards. Match the most cards to win a special sexual favour or fantasy reward. You can play a few of these quick and easy card games with stripping and increasing levels of foreplay to increase your sexual tension and desire for each other. Make it a strip game by letting the winner of each round strip an item of clothing from any player.

Objective

The ultimate goal, of course, is to have Wildly Passionate Sex the way you remember it. However, the foreplay activities performed are determined by matching pairs of cards from a deck laid randomly face down. Attempt to find matches by turning over only two cards at a time. The player with the highest number of matches wins a special sexual favour or fantasy as their reward.

Setup & Preparation

Write down a set of foreplay ideas to correspond to each of the 13 cards in a deck. Also create a list of 13 possible sex ideas (activities, positions, locations, etc.) corresponding to each card. A full, standard deck of cards is used (two decks if a third player or couple are joining in your couples games – wink, wink). Shuffle and place all the cards face down so they don’t overlap each other. Ensure no one sees what the cards are as they’re being placed.

To help you customize your own sexy card games with the kinds of stimulating foreplay ideas you want in your couples games, here are four editable PDF templates that you can download, fill in and print out:

You can add any type of frisky activity you want ranging from romantic to sensual to down right kinky. You can even make up different versions to use as your couple games progress to a climax. This allows you to start off slow and build up to more explicit sexual play as you strip each other naked. For more details about using these card based foreplay activity templates, see our article on How to Turn Free Card Games Into Sexy And Fun Card Games For Couples.

Also check out our books below. They provide card based activity templates for your spicy couples games and include lots of pleasuring examples to inspire you.

How to Play

Each player in turn attempts to find a matching pair of cards by turning two over at a time. If it’s not a match, flip the cards back over face down again. If they’re a match, then:

  • If you match two cards of the same colour, keep them and go again
  • If you match a red and a black card, you keep them and receive the foreplay activity corresponding to the card

When you match a red and black card, perform the corresponding foreplay activity immediately. This makes remembering where the previously turned up cards are just a little bit more difficult.

Play until there are just 2 cards remaining. This final set of cards will determine the sex activity the winner receives. For two players, leaving one set out ensures that one player will have matched at least one more set than the other. Count up the number of matches you’ve found. The player with the most matches wins the sex play activity corresponding to the remaining cards.

Scoring

You score foreplay favours from your partner based on how well you remember to have sex. Play as many times as you like (maybe with a more intense list of foreplay ideas to enjoy). Once you play a couple games you’ll come up with many of your own sexy rule enhancements.

Variations

Here are a few ways to spice up your 2 player card games for couples:

  • Use Erotic Playing Cards for visual stimulation
  • Turn it into a strip game by including one or more Jokers in the mix. Finding a Joker means your lover removes an article of clothing. Replace the Joker and scramble the remaining cards to end the current turn
  • Perform female activity when a red match is found and male activity when a black match is found, just hug and kiss each other for mixed matchs
  • Keep matched pairs in order. Winner receives the foreplay then sex play activities at the end of the game in sequence rather than as the game progresses
  • Use a 69 second timer. A single player attempts to find as many matches as possible. Perform the corresponding foreplay activities in sequence. Use the last set found to determine the sex play to perform. Repeat
  • Invite special friends over and play mixed doubles – couples pick one card each to see if they can make a match together

We hope you enjoy designing, customizing and playing your very own adult card games for couples. Get more ideas for your lovemaking games in our Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas For Couples: Be Naughty Play Dirty Together book available on Amazon. It includes hundreds of pleasuring activities of different intensity levels mapped to both dice and cards for use in your intimate games.

For more straight, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and threesome foreplay games and activities, get our book: Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games. The dirty dice activities can be used in any of your naughty games.


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